Talking about sex is considered taboo in the Karen community because it is assumed that if someone is talking about sex, they must be engaging in it. Many parents and adults avoid the topic because they do not want children to learn about sex, and they fear that discussing it might encourage young people to become sexually active.

Many Karen individuals have resettled in new countries, where sexual and reproductive health (SRH) topics might be more openly discussed or where different societal norms exist. This can create a significant generational divide among families. Younger Karen individuals, exposed to different educational systems and media, may have more questions or a greater desire for information about SRH than their parents or elders, leading to misunderstandings and further communication breakdowns.

Parents may struggle with how to navigate SRH discussions in a new cultural context. They might feel pressure to maintain traditional values while also recognizing that their children are exposed to different perspectives. This can lead to increased anxiety and a reinforced reluctance to discuss SRH.

Since the community does not openly talk about sex, the subject is often approached only through jokes. Sex is typically discussed among men in a joking manner, and there is a general lack of education about the anatomy and physiology of the reproductive system.

In addition to the cultural taboo, religion plays a significant role in discouraging open conversations about sex and sexual health. Especially within the Christian community, there is a common belief that sex should only occur within marriage. Individuals who engage in premarital sex may be viewed as worthless and may bring shame to their families if others find out.

Written by:

Has Hser Ku, Community Health Worker